To love or to be loved?

Would you choose to be loved or to love? To be loved is surely lucky.. but how could you accept the love from the person u don't even love? It spoils the meaning of love. to love is something grateful.. u feel happy when ur able to make the person u loved happy.. u'd even sacrifice for them. I believe in unconditional love.. but does it really exist? No, it doesn't.. because human tends to love themselves more than others. When you tend to give the unconditional love, the other person will take it for granted. To have a successful relationship, one need to close both eyes, the other one need to know to appreciate that blinded person.