I Fell "n" times, again & again. I've always wanted to learn to be tough & be strong. I had easy way, but i've chosen the hard way. And yes, i fell! From the top of the world to the deep bottom of the sea. I thought of giving up... but no...
I LEARN. I believe in learning from mistakes.. i took my 2 years to think of the mistakes in the past, and trying to analyze, to learn, and TO GROW. I thought i'm tough enough, i thought i know what i've wanted, i thought i've grown... I'm repeating the same mistake. Miracle happened to me once.. i hope it will happen once again... or maybe not. Because i am tired to believe & to try anymore.
Finally.. i dedicate a song to myself.. =)
蔡依林 - 非卖品
当时怎么爱上你的
朋友说的 我微笑听着
爱情的剧本 原来就没规则
现在变不重要了 结局揭晓了
后来当朋友 你我也只是说说
训练成好演员的我
说不遗憾是骗人的
那些爱与不爱还在整理着
我明白的 只是谁来导演呢
勇敢是你教的
眼泪是我的 快乐都假的
我想找个答案
如果爱被出卖 到最后非卖品有什么剩下
太好强 又太傻 受了伤
当赠品留下 包装的坚强
笑的那么自然 悲伤也放进橱窗
爱没有答案
再倔强再不放 到最后被看穿一个人逞强
说不恨 是骗人
我不再隐瞒爱的伤痕
不舍转过身 不必回头的承认
非卖品是爱最美的灵魂
训练成好演员的我
说不遗憾是骗人的
那些爱与不爱还在整理着
我明白的 只是谁来导演呢
勇敢是你教的
眼泪是我的 快乐都假的
我想找个答案
如果爱被出卖 到最后非卖品有什么剩下
太好强 又太傻 受了伤
当赠品留下 包装的坚强
笑的那么自然 悲伤也放进橱窗
爱没有答案
再倔强再不放 到最后被看穿一个人逞强
说不恨 是骗人
我不再隐瞒爱的伤痕
不舍转过身 不必回头的承认
3 comments:
yeah, i can feel your pain, deep inside your heart. or me tall hoot..
Hey dear,
Saw your blog. Interesting but feel sad & sympathise with you lar. Can see I what u r currently going thru & I myself have gone thru the obstacles a million times before.
Well, all I know is that "We must accept life for what it actually is - a challenge to our quality without which we should never know of what stuff we are made, or grow to our full stature".
Besides, no one is perfect & bound to make silly mistakes till such an extent you may feel regret for a long time. It's ok to go thru this & everyone has to go thru this stage. It's ok to feel sad & discouraged & take ur time, don't force yourself! Then, when it's over, take your time to 'climb' & move on again like when u were a baby learning how to walk' & eventually I'm sure you can somehow do it. Anyway, everyone incl. those successful ones will go thru this period & it's ok, It's all part of life & we all need to take it as a challenge & treat it as part of life!
Also, life is all about ups & downs & we'll never foresee or predict what is going to take place next. Whatever it may be, just take it easy, don't take it for granted, make full use of it & cherish it as much as u can every single moment!
In all my life, I do think I have gone thru worst than you & even got myself in extreme situations & troubles! But I still managed to pull it through all the while. How come? I always have a strong belief in myself & determination, enthusiasm,committment + motivation played an important role too! On the other hand, it took me 8 long years to reach at the very highest level in the advertising industry I've been. 8 long years of silly mistakes, stupidity, attitude problem, hardships, tolerance, etc but it was a very good experience for me indeed & worth it a lot! Till today, it still reflect on my life & I'm happy to have gone thru it cos I learnt & pick up a lot from there which makes me a better person overall. Never be afraid to learn. Whenever you do something, just give yourself a pat on your shoulder for a well-deserved effort even though it may be a mistake. You don't lose anything but at least take the comfort you did try your very best.
Always remember 'there's really nothing to lose even though you make many mistakes'! I always constantly reminding myself 'the more mistakes I make, the more successful I'll be!' Nothing is impossible.
Below are more motviational/ inspirational quotes. Hope it helps!
- The only way of finding the
limits of the possible is by
going beyond them into the
impossible.
- Our greatest glory is not in
never falling but in rising
every time we fall.
- There is only one success; to be
able to spend your life in your
own way.
- Winning isn't everything, but
wanting to win or succeed is.
- Years & expertise educate us
more than books.
- It does not matter how slowly
you go so long as you do not
stop trying.
- You gain strength, courage, and
confidence by every experience
in which you really stop to look
fear in the face. You must do
the thing which you think you
cannot do.
- Take the first step in faith.
You don't have to see the whole
staircase, just take the first
step.
- You learn as much from those
who have failed as from those
who have succeeded.
- To succeed, you need to take
that gut feeling in what you
believe and act on it with all
of your heart.
So I'm sure by now you know where I'm coming from. Be yourself, cool & lead your own life the way u used to! No point to feel let down further & it will just bring more misery to you. Don't give up easli & continue to pursue what you have & want to in your own way no matter how long it's going to take. I'm very sure you'll be able to overcome all these & move on further... just a matter of time & be patient! Most imporantly of all, during this difficult period, all you can do is to remain calm & be strong & confident! Pls don't let all these situations, mistakes, emotions overcome you & you basically need to take charge of it. I know it's easier said than done & action speaks louder than words. Give yourself some time & as long as you try, I'm sure there will be positive results soon!
Do feel free to bug me if you need any further help or a listening ear! I'm always around & if you don't mind, let me buy you a coffee or lunch & chat with u. Hehe... Ok lar! Don't think so much, just do whatever you can & it's still not too late yet! You can do it & be proud of yourself lar! By the way, cheer up & u look very sweet whenever you smile, laugh or happy! That's a compliment & I'm not lying ok?
Do take good care yourself & appreciate what you have & ur own life too! Take it easy & things are not complicated, just need some fine-tuning, that's all! Haha... Let's go, kick some ass!!!
Best Wishes & all the very best!
Cheers!
The One & Only,
AJ
(the guy who's the same hometown from u & also shares the same birthday with you)
Thanks AJ.. appreciate that =) All the best to you too...
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